Getting Horny While High Is Nothing To Worry About

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Mary and Jane sitting in a tree; K-I-S-S-We-Love-Weed. Yeah, we went there, but can you blame us? Marijuana and sex go together like peanut butter and jelly or Rick and Morty. That’s why High Times has been supplying you with our weekly Stoner Sex column for the past four years—courtesy of former adult film star and cannabis advocate Hyapatia Lee. Each week, Hyapatia answers your burning questions regarding stoner sexuality, and today’s column hits on everything from how to handle getting mad horny while high to dealing with accidental stimulation (specifically, while riding a horse).

Have your own questions for Hyapatia? Email her at hya@hightimes.com. 

Dear Hyapatia,

Every time I smoke weed, I get horny. I am not kidding. I get a hard-on and can’t stop thinking about sex. My girlfriend was really cool at first, but now she is accusing me of making it up. I don’t know why she would think I would make something like that up. It’s not like I HAVE to have sex when I am high, it’s just all I can think of for a while. Is there something wrong with me?

— Steve

Dear Steve,

I have heard of people getting horny when they get stoned, so I don’t think there is anything wrong with you. Does your girlfriend feel pressure to have sex with you?  From your letter, it sounds like you are fine if you don’t have sex every time you get high. Does she know that for sure? I can’t think of any other reason that she would accuse you of making it up. I mean, what would be your motive? Sex? If you can go without sex when you get horny while high, it shouldn’t have anything to do with her.

Dear Hyapatia,

I have a horse I love very much. Sometimes we go riding, and it makes me very excited. Something about sitting in the saddle and the rubbing on my clit just drives me crazy. My boyfriend says I like more horse more than him. He is very jealous of her. I should never have let him know how it turns me on to ride. I have even climaxed that way. I do love my horse a lot, but I don’t want my boyfriend to think I love her more than I love him. How can I convince him?

— Janice

Dear Janice,

First of all, I would not mention how much you like riding and how it turns you on to your boyfriend anymore. Then, since he already knows, after you ride, make sure to have sex with him so he knows it is him that finishes you off. I think he just wants to be sure he can satisfy you. I understand how you feel, I used to own two horses myself and felt the same way. It can be stimulating to ride.

Dear Hyapatia,

I have this dear friend I have known for years. Recently he has started to use the N-word. It makes me very uncomfortable. I don’t like it, but I don’t know how to ask him to stop. We get high and have lots of fun together hanging out and all, but if he doesn’t stop, I am going to have to quit all that. Neither one of us is black.

— Randy

Dear Randy,

I would suggest you share a fatty or two and have a heart to heart. Start out by telling him how much his friendship means to you. Then, you could move on to talking about music and what kind of styles you like and perhaps you could mention that one thing you don’t like is when rappers use the N-word. I bet he will pick up on that and realize you probably don’t appreciate it when he uses it either. If you feel he is not picking up on your clues, you could come out and ask him to stop using it. No one wants to be accused of racism but using that word could make people who don’t know better suggest that very thing.

Dear Hyapatia,

I know this is just a little thing, but it is starting to get bigger as time goes by. My girlfriend decides she has had enough to smoke and just sits the partially smoked joint down in the ashtray. I pick it up and continue to smoke. She holds out her hand, so I pass it to her and then instead of hitting it, she puts it in the ashtray again. Is she trying to tell me to quit? Or is she just absent minded?

— Dale

Dear Dale,

It is hard to tell without coming out and asking her. You might say something like, “Oh, I thought you were done or I would have passed it to you. Sorry.” When she puts it in the ashtray, you might say, “I’ll take that, thanks.” If she wants to get you to stop smoking, make it so that she has to come out and say so, even if it is in response to you questioning her. That way you will know for sure what is going on. If she wants you to stop, ask why? Does she want you to use your hands for something else, like sex? Or does she just think you smoke too much?

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